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My Name is Nicki. I am 28 years old, and this blog is meant to be one of opinion and open discussion. My life long dream is to one day write something that will touch lives in positive ways. I want people to read and come to an understanding of the things that not only I see happening in the world around me but what others see as well. This is a place for standing up for what you believe in. However, this is also a place in which I expect everyone to understand each other and communicate with each other in a respectful manner. If you cannot comply with this one request I will ask that you leave this page. Have a wonderful day or night. And welcome to my world.

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